I work in a big hospital, in an administrative capacity for senior non clinical management so nothing to do with patient data. This morning my husband and I (we both work here) attended a consultant paeds appointment with my DS for an assessment which culminated in a diagnosis of autism. Although we were aware he wasn't quite right and had some issues holding him back, this is obviously a complete bombshell which is going to change our family life and the way that we parent going forward. I had to make up the time for the appointment, my DH was granted parental leave but AIBU to just not be in the right headspace for work (came straight back to my office).