I'm being referred to one to try and support 12 yr old DD.
But I can't figure out what it might tell me that googling and years of MN haven't.
When DD is violent I'm not violent back but I do have to restrain her to prevent injury to herself (broken windows or electrics) or me or her brother. I can't let her destroy the house, we've already lost a lot of stuff and everything needs repainting and doors repairing.