DS had some issues as a toddler. Would just run off, lots of screaming etc. No speech apart from a couple of sounds and a couple of words (which only I could understand) by the age of 2-3. Referred for SALT. A block of 30 minutes x 6 weeks did nothing and then had to wait a year for another load. Paid for a private report - complex SAL needs. Also referred to audiology - significant hearing problems.
No grommets needed but 80% reduction in one ear for hearing etc
By the time reception came hearing was back almost to normal at 80% and audiology discharged him, but S & L was a significant problem. Referred to a special school and given a placement for a year (maximum allowed) but lockdown happened as he made such progress during lockdown that he went scored 36/40 on year 1 phonics test. Now in year 2. Doing year 4 maths, reading is stage 8 on ORT and pretty fluent.
But English, general work and hand writing is a total nightmare. Major problems processing instructions even with a house with 3 teachers in - at lockdown (at the more really hard) 15 hours on English this week to write 4 sentences. I’m at teaching online parents are retired and elderly.
Have applied for an EHCP a year ago - assessment was Monday just gone.. Waiting to see what the assessment shows but initial indications are dyslexia(?) possibility, verbal and audiology delay caused by initial hearing loss. Concern from EP is audio processing. Even if you are sitting next to him 1-2-1 and ask him to write cat - you might have to say it 10 times - he looks at you blankly and so on. He can read a word and knows for the most part what it means. But say ‘the polar bear is white’ 4/5 times and ask him to draw or explain and he looks blank. Show him a picture of a polar bear he knows what it is but can’t find the word. Yet he can read it. Home learning is a beyond stress he will not sit still. Sentences contain a few words and after much 1-2-1 intervention he can write The cat on is the mat. Ie words not correct but this is after many tears.
School (just returned to mainstream on last day of term in December) sending home 6 pieces of work each day - one piece might be imagine you are princess going on a journey. Draw a map of all the things you encounter. Next write 5 sentences in joined up handwriting. Example - I am going through the deep dark green forest, the sky is dark and gloomy and the day is cold. Continue this with 5 more sentences and make sure each has a noun, verb abs several adjectives.
He cries. The teacher he is producing a worksheet for him with a detailed map example drawn and sentences all written in beautiful joined up writing as an example of what he wants.
Have had a phone call with the headteacher. As my son can not do the work even with each worksheet broken down and in detail.
Have the option to send him in next week and a teacher and ta will support him and they have said he needs the support and really he is breaking down and in pieces over the English.
Spelling he learns by rote and is fine. But it took an hour for him to write
I cross the bridge. Over the water.
And we helped with all the spelling of water and bridge.
I’ve told the teacher we can not continue. the discharge letter from the speech centre says his speech is better but the disorder is complex and persisting with elements that might be permanent.
Has anyone come across this? He often writes 12 as 21 even though he means 12. S backwards etc 32/40 on the dyslexic marker test.
What can I do to support him ?( his father has some contact and some holiday time) but will not support With home learning as he ‘needs to play’ - dad is a teacher as well.
Where to we go? I’m teaching online 6 hours a day. But try to do some in morning and afternoon. His school want him in from next week
I’m now thinking does he repeat year 2? He has none of the English basics eg the cat sat on a the mat. Have explained nouns everyday but he still doesn’t get it. And we have taught it in 10 different ways - eg draw me a cat on a mat - what can you touch, can you bring it to me, can you say a cat or the cat etc
In his not his effort as such but his attention span is very very short. Leave him alone to do a short task and come back 5 minutes later - not done, if you left him 5 hours he would still be sat there looking at it (?)
He is 7.