Ds nearly 7, yr 2 has failed every progress check at school since reception and is really behind, probably bottom of his class.
He has been having investigations into epilepsy and certainly gets a fair few, seconds long episodes but 2 eeg's in and we can't confirm them (another scheduled for January).
I am dyslexic and thought it was probably that but he has a good long and short term memory and it just doesn't seem to fit. I would say he is intelligent with good verbal ability.
The other option is ADHD. He is really well behaved in class but a constant ball of activity and movement, couldn't concentrate on being read a simple child's book until a couple of months ago, so usually does a where's Wally or maze book with me before bed.
He's an absolute nightmare to get his homework done (reading 3x per week, spellings and 30 mins of a maths app) so they keep him in every Friday to catch up. I hate that but it's the rule they apply to the whole school. He just accepts it but I don't want him to feel punished because he is such a good boy.
We are trying to raise the money for an assessment. I worry if we splurged the cash in a dyslexia assessment he will get a diagnosis but we may miss something else going on. Will the dr just patronise us if we talk about adhd with him?
My other two kids have additional needs but it has always felt more logical and obvious what they were and I'm unsure about this!