Hi, I'm new to mumsnet and can't believe how helpful and supportive everyone is. Wish I'd joined ages ago! My DS is 25 months and has developmental delay (undiagnosed). He was having absence seizures from around 4 months after going into hospital with bronchiolitis, and at 9 months he had a febrile convulsion, when concerns were expressed over his floppiness and slow development (couldn't sit up or handle toys). DS was put on epilim (sodium valproate) -what now seems to me a very high dose - to contain the fits and supposedly help his progress. With the help of physio he has made very slow progress over the past year, but still had low tone and couldn't move unaided in July this year at 22 months. In September at age 24 months he was developmentally between 9-13 months of age, most markedly behind in his fine motor skills (he hasn't yet developed the pincer grip properly), most ahead in his comprehension.
DS has always slept an extraordinary amount and had back to back colds, flu, ear infections and recurrent bronchiolitis and asthma. He was always groggy, tired and unwilling/unable to do anything except sit in front of the TV. He only really had 2 0r 3 wakeful hours per day. I have had all the worries, anxiety and panics that other mums express here.
Three months ago, DS came off the epilim. He has had no further fits, and has been discharged from neurology. But he has also come to life. Everyone says he is like a different child. He has made more progress in 3 months than in the past year. He is now crawling, pulling himself up onto furniture and cruising and exploring his environment and handling toys (albeit still clumsily). I had thought he was tactile defensive because he wouldn't touch anything, but now he is excited by everything around him. It's like he has woken up. He is now nearly walking, and has started babbling and copying words although his physical skills are "competing" with his verbal ones and he hasn't said much lately. He also has been diagnosed recently with long sightedness and has been prescribed glasses, which seem to have helped a lot.
I just wondered if any other mums have had a similar experience with developmental delay and epilim?