He is seeing a physio reasonably often, but I don't know how much I should be doing at home between appointments, and what I should be working on (she has been working with him on a ball, and he was progressing till a week or so ago, now he fights it all the time when he is on his tummy. Today the physio concentrated on him rolling, and playing while sitting).
He saw an OT a couple of months ago and she sent through some ideas, and I feel that as his gross motor skills are better than his fine motor that I should be working on "playing" with him more. I don't know how though, and how much.
I looked at the SCOPE website (or forum actually) last night, and it did come clear to me that if we are to have any hope of helping him he needs a therapy plan. Even if he is not actually seen by a phsyio or OT that often, I need to know what to do at home!
What other websites / organisations are out there? He had some blood taken today, and there was a sign up about the Centre for Interactive Education (or something), who else is out there?
He has been seen by GP, commnuity pediatrician, consultant neurologists, and OT and physios, but noone has said categorically that he has it, but they (physios and GP, not so much the neurologist) do talk about the spasticity. The physio told me though that spasticity is just a generaly term for "stiffness". The GP said to me that he would be frank with me, and said that I can expect a dx, but I don't know of what. Noone has categorically ruled it in or out, and noone other than the private physio has even mentioned it (the physio has said several times that he doesn't present as a "typical" CP child, but thinks his arms are very stiff).
DH did email the GP and neuro today specifically about CP, to say it has been inferred, and he asked if it has been ruled in or out. I wouldn't expect any "professional" dr to give a dx over email though, so I am not sure what the exact point of his email was!
If you have any OT ideas or resources, they would be hugely appreciated.
We are not getting DLA, I don't know how to apply. I haven't looked at the forms yet (denial?) but I don't really know that I really do anything more for him at the moment than I do / did for DS1.
I am sorry to hear about all your and your DDs issues and poor treatment on the part of it seems everyone. I don't know how you keep going. Part of me hopes this will just go away, but I am starting to accept it's not going to. I just wish we had a plan so I could be doing some (at least) of what we can for him.