As many of you will know, DS3 has noted delays, most clearly in spech / langauge but generally he's about 2 yeras delayed. ASd ahs been the dx put about most by the Paed but Dh and I have been wondering about this for a bit- in terms of his development lately the social side has moved forwards far faster than any other, and he just isn't like ds1, iykwim?
We dor ealise we may be in denial.
However, the most similar to any child we know is a child with Downs Syndrome that ds1 attends an SN group. That probably wouldn't be enough to make us wonder, except that when I was pg with ds3 all the blood tests for Downs DID come out as high risk- we chose not to have an amnio.
Paed says its not GDD as he walked within the norm frame (yes, but only just- the other 2 walked at 10 months and 11, whilst ds3 walked at 16 so not 'norm' for our family)
SALT still making noises about Speecha nd alnguage disorder when we last saw her (a good whilse back as we have been put to the community team and the inevitable waiting list).
There are lots of possibles but nothing quite fits- today though someone at SN Rugby queried Mosaicism as a possibility 9they commented on how their son (the one with DS) and ds3 had amtching eyes and seemed so similar in some ways).
Now granted Dh and I are starting to get desperate for a DX that we feel 'fits' DS3 as we would like some clues about the future with him. None of the explanations so far quite got ds3 right, and nobody ahs yet offered any ways to help him at all, bar BIBIC I suppose.
Anyone any ideas?