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emmapemma91 · 09/09/2020 13:16

My little girl is 6, she’s waiting for assessment due to autistic traits.
She started a new school Monday, and today I’ve had to pick her up after an hour due to her not settling.
The school said ‘they’re unable to meet her needs and they haven’t got the staff.’ I can’t physically go pick her up after an hour each day and she has a right to a full time education. I understand it’s a hard situation for eceryone and will be going down the EHCP route but the school were told about her special needs and attending the review panel to make sure they were prepared to accept her. I’ve heard it’s not legal to send a pupil of compulsory school age home for behaviour as it counts as a unofficial exclusion? Same as reduced timetables?

It’s such a hard situation, I don’t want her in distress or disrupting other students but she needs a education as she’s already behind 😔

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10brokengreenbottles · 09/09/2020 14:14

Yes, informal exclusions are illegal. Tell the school you will only be picking DD up if they are formally excluding her and providing you with the paperwork.

Reduced timetables are also illegal, unless it is short term with the aim of reintegration. Not just because the school don't want to try to meet DD's needs and it's easier for them.

Where are you with the EHCP?

emmapemma91 · 09/09/2020 14:16

She has been put onto reduced timetable. Pick up at dinner time, review in 3 weeks. She’s only been at this New school for 2 days, so we haven’t started EHCP yet as need to school to try other settling methods 😔 was told if she doesn’t settle again I will get a phone call to pick her up

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Ellie56 · 09/09/2020 21:05

Tell them you won't be picking her up unless they are officially excluding her in which case you want the paperwork.

Your child is entitled to a full time education just like any other child.

I posted a link to the Exclusion guidelines on your other thread. What they are doing is unlawful.

10brokengreenbottles · 10/09/2020 11:55

You can submit an EHCNA request, you don't have to wait for school to do it. IPSEA have a model letter you can use on their website.

danni0509 · 11/09/2020 13:31

It’s illegal.

I know you probably don’t want to (I’ve been there) but please stand firm and tell them this or they’ll try it on for as long as they can.

I had nearly 2 years of this with ds school.

2 hours a day throughout reception, I kept complaining and he was upped to 3 hours and then 4 during the last term of R.

Year 1 came and he was still on 4 hrs a day but they didn’t listen to me despite me asking weekly for him to be full time. I had to phone the local authority in the end.

He eventually 3 months into yr1 did full time, 6 hours a day, but then coronavirus came and they dropped him to 4 hr 45m a day and those are the hours they wanted him to come back on for yr2 aswell until I said NO. 6 hours a day like the other children and I’m not accepting any less.

He had an ehcp from nursery age but it didn’t stop them taking the piss.

When does your daughter turn 5? It’s the term after they turn 5 that school is compulsory, I’m not sure if it’s legal if school can keep her part time until the term after she’s 5, but it’s certainly what ds school did with me and the Local authority (who are also bullshitters in my experience) sided with the school on that saying they didn’t have to take ds full time until term after 5.

Phone sendiass they are experienced with this and they will contact school on your behalf and keep them in line with the law. I know this because my sendiass worker does exactly that.

Deffo contact sendiass my worker fumes when kids are on part time and always liases with the school on the parents behalf.

I felt a pain in the arse constantly having to ask for my son to do the hours he’s entitled too and I hated having to keep complaining but your not in the wrong they are so get on their back and don’t get off until they do what they are supposed to do.

Ask for a meeting ASAP to arrange to apply for an ehcp and if they are unwilling to help, go ahead and apply yourself, sendiass can help with that also.

danni0509 · 11/09/2020 13:34

Oh she’s SIX I have just read.

Piss taking fuckers!

Scrap the above about the term after 5.

emmapemma91 · 11/09/2020 14:08

Thank you for your help! I’ve applied for EHCP yesterday myself, also emailed sendiass although in my local authority they’re very overwhelmed and still working from home. Been asked to agree to a TAF meeting which I think would help a lot, although not sure if I should email the school and ask for paperwork showing my child’s reduced timetable and how they’re planning to reintegrate her. I’ve had absolutely no paperwork.

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