DS was in year 4 this year with a teacher I can describe as a bit of a dinosaur regarding additional needs. DS is autistic, dyspraxic and demand avoidant. Teacher says she doesn't see any of it 🙄 so uses NT techniques (moving him, losing break time) to get him to stop talking/sit still. Also shouts at him if she has to repeat instructions.
At parents evening she said to him he was below expected therefore "coasting" and "not applying himself and focussing" and so on. He cried until 1am that night because he was trying his best with all his work. Any suggestions I make to help DS in class (eg written instructions) she ignores.
We heard from school last week that DS will have her again this year and I am worried that his current level of school refusal will go through the roof until he is unable to attend at all.
After my written complaint about the teacher, Senco has offered to "sort things out" with teacher or move DS into the other class. DS says his friends are all in current class so he'll stay. I'm not sure an ableist attitude can be "sorted out" over the summer holidays. I know another parent of a child with ADHD has also complained about this teacher. WWYD? Move class? Or stay and slog it out ?