I've got 5 dc, 4 with SN but my 7 year old ds (year 2) who is dc4 is the first one to need an ehcp so this is new to me. Ds has GDD (developmentally he is around 4-5 years old), cleft lip/palate (with all the hearing/speech problems that go with it) and hydrocephalus.
After several years of me saying I thought ds4 needed an ehcp and preschool/school saying not yet, maybe when he is older and the developmental gap between his actual age and developmental age is wider, in April this year the school senco said she was going to apply for his ehcp. She asked me, dh and ds some questions like what are his strengths and weaknesses, what would he like to learn to do at school that he can't do now (ds said he wanted to learn to drive a helicopter
). She said she would get back to us when something needed signing.
2 weeks ago I emailed the senco to let her know his grommets have fallen out and his hearing is so bad we are now doing a lot of signing with him and to ask how the ehcp is going. I've had no reply yet. I've tried phoning and got no answer. As parents we are not allowed to go in the school building or stand less than 2 metres away from staff so I can't talk to her in person.
Is it normal for an ehcp application to go on for this long without any involvement from the parents? Is there still any hope of it being finished and ready for September when he goes into year 3? DH keeps telling me to relax as the ehcp affects the school rather than us and the support for ds will be the same, just paid for by the LEA rather than the school. It's driving me mad not knowing though.