Here's our situation - DS is 10 and will be in Y6 by Sept. We have a very well detailed EHCP.
We have identified a school with enhanced resource provision about 6 miles away, this is the only local school we can see which would offer appropriate education - small class, extra teachers per group and not to GCSE level.
Our mainstream school is about 3 minutes walk away.
LA was guardedly positive about ERU in meeting this spring ('depends on numbers but in theory its viable').
Should we approach the mainstream with EHCP and ask them directly can you provide this level of support for complex needs (unlikely but will they be honest? One mainstream we visited said they would take him but he would have lack of peer group and not access interventions out of class due to OFSTED guidance - so sink or swim situation, SENCO basically putting us off in the nicest possible way) or should we wait until transition review where EHCP will be amended towards secondary provision?
I basically want to sound them out and get them to confirm that his needs are well above what they can provide for as this will give me ammunition if LA play silly buggers (enhanced resource has few places so could be oversubscribed, I know technically this is not a reason to refuse but could be a card played).
Or should we just leave mainstream alone, having effectively decided he would never go there anyway? It would be a set up to fail on all levels - social and academic - and I'm not willing to put him through that as his self esteem is pretty good right now.