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Cerebral palsy?!?!

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Peggypig · 10/05/2020 12:45

My daughter has been diagnosed with cerebral palsy! I need to know everything symptoms, thoughts, feeling and everything in between?

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Richlyfruited · 11/05/2020 20:11

That's difficult to do as CP is so different for every individual!

What type has she been dx with? How old is she?

I have a 13 year old with mild CP who was finally diagnosed at 3 years old. Fortunately she's doing incredibly well but it was an intense and stressful journey for us as parents especially in the early years.

Peggypig · 11/05/2020 20:45

She’s 14 months she’s got spastic diplegia CP grade 3/4 high muscle tone she’s getting a wheelchair buggy very soon, im just feeling overwhelmed and confused

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Richlyfruited · 12/05/2020 11:19

Flowers it's really tough following a dx - I hope you're getting lots of support at home and from the professionals. Must be difficult as I know physio's and other services aren't seeing anyone in person at the moment.

My DD has athetoid CP so a different type but has constantly amazed us with her determination and abilities against all the odds. The professionals often err on the side of caution and paint a bleaker picture of your child as whatever happens is usually much more positive.

I used to post here a lot but it got really quiet for parents of children with CP Sad I found a couple of really active groups on FB for support - have you come across Hope for HIE?

Poppywood · 14/05/2020 06:47

Hiya
My 2 year old Daughter has spastic diplegia. She is looking like a level 2 or 3 on the GMFS but it's too soon to know for sure as she is still developing.

Has your daughter had an MRI to diagnose? Do you know the cause? My daughter has a form of brain damage called periventricular leukomalacia (PVL) Which occurred shortly before birth - she was 9 weeks premature.

My daughter learnt to sit at around 14 months, crawled at 17 months, walking with a Kay walker at 30 months (needs guidance and supervision in it still) and has just started cruising at 34 months. She wears night splints, has orthotic boots and a mini wheelchair (we opted for wheelchair rather than adapted buggy so she might learn to self propel).

Although CP mainly effects her legs she also has some fine motor delays which is common in kids with diplegia- we work on this a lot at home with lots of fine motor learning play. It's an area I didn't really worry about until about 6 months ago I focused so much on gross motor development and physio and then I realised how delayed she was with fine motor too so started incorporating more of that into our daily at home play and physio sessions.

Usually (when not in lockdown) she sees a private physio twice a month (our NHS support and provision is very poor - they are good for equipment but not for physio sessions so we pay private). Hydrotherapy once a week, horse riding once a week and Portage once a week and then we do exericses daily. She has standing frame at home which we try and put her in for an hour a day. I would start asking the NHS physio about a standing frame right away if it hasn't yet been mentioned as it's so important for them.

In a very Simplified way, Spastic diplegic CP means that the brain is misfiring signals to the muscles in the legs causing them to become stiff and it therefore becomes difficult to build normal movement patterns. Physio and stretching is really important to try and ensure she doesn't loose muscle length or range of movement.

As your daughter has diplegic CP she may be a candidate for a spinal surgery called SDR, which can permenantly remove the spasticity in the legs. The NHS started doing this surgery in 2017, before then you could pay privately at some children's hospitals like Bristol and I believe you still can if she doesn't meet the NHS criteria. It's very narrow and strict criteria in the NHS - for example they must be diplegic, not have dystonia, they must have enough strength and ability that independent walking is deemed achievable.
The surgery can't be done before the age of 3 on the NHS but it's worth asking her neurologist and orthopaedic consultant about.
Just before lockdown we heard that our daughter is likely eligible for the surgery on the NHS and was being put forward for a formal assessment where they will decide. If not we will look into doing it privately. It's a remarkable surgery which has had amazing results for so many children with CP. there is a Facebook group where you can follow children who have had it done.

I hope some of this helps happy to answer any questions. I don't know if it helps but my daughter is very happy, very funny, she's extremely chatty, her speech is well ahead of her peers and she's bright as a button and extremely
bossy! She does have some delays outside of gross motor but she's catching up, it's to be expected as they don't get the same opportunities to explore the world and learn as other children do so it can take them a little longer. It's maybe worth mentioning she does also have epilepsy and it is more common in children with CP so be vigilant - no need to be over anxious though, just aware. My daughters seizures were initially a form of epilepsy called infantile spasms which were very subtle but she's been seizure free for a year now!

I know it's scary and daunting and can feel incredibly sad when you get the diagnosis but honestly life will be great and she will amaze you!

Peggypig · 14/05/2020 08:20

@Poppywood thank you for all the information and yours and your daughters experiences
Lela was born at 29 weeks I was bleeding internally, so everything was very rushed she had to be resuscitated at birth the lack of oxygen caused brain damage. also while in the Neo Natal she got an infection which she had to be resuscitated again this is at 16 days old but she recovered and came home after 9 weeks. She is doing amazing despite her physical disability she is delayed in most areas bit she’s slowly getting there, she’s 14 months she can’t sit yet but is doing a funny crawl. Yeah diagnosed by MRI
She’s getting a special needs buggy because she’s not got a strong trunk and xpanda chair, physio and OT haven’t got massive confidence that she will walk, but she is a very determined little girl

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Poppywood · 14/05/2020 13:27

Oh my goodness resuscitated twice! She's a fighter for sure! A little miracle! I'm guessing they warned you at the time that she would Most likely have cerebral palsy? We knew in NICU about my daughters brain damage as well and they told us most likely she would have quadraplegic Cp, never walk, talk, even feeding orally they thought she Struggle with, and they also thought most likely severe learning disability. She's slowly proving wrong and it's an honour to watch her grow and achieve these things people never thought she would.

I'm so pleased to here that she's doing so well - that's amazing that she's found a way of crawling so she can get herself where she wants to be. Shows how determined she is! Physios can't know for sure at 14 months how well her gross motor skills will progress, whilst it's good to be realistic there is also nothing wrong with having hope! Xx

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