I'm a single mum to two children my 6 year old son has adhd and behaviour problems possibly asd. He is very violent toward myself and his 8 year old sister. He swears like a trooper and It's like walking through a mindfield everyday as you just don't know what will set him off. I'm hit, kicked, bitten and spat at daily. I dread each day before it has even began.
Getting him dressed, undressed, to eat or do as he's told is just such a battle. His tantrums can last for hours and nothing calms him down. I tried to walk away from him and he will follow me, I've tried putting him in his bedroom and holding the door but he trashed it and screams so loudly that next door complaint. I've tried reward charts but he rips them up. He wet himself daily mainly during a tantrum. I can't leave the house and he just runs off and won't listen so we are always stuck in the house. He can play in the garden but even now he's starting to climb the fence. I've just had enough I can't deal with him much longer.