My teenage DS got preliminary diagnosed with ADHD from the connors questionnaires given to us and school etc, and from lengthy interviews with CAMHs team.
It felt like at last we would get some support after waiting such a long time to even get assessed by CAMHS.
But then just before they formally diagnosed he did the QB test and they just basically threw him out of their services! At the last meeting I was so depressed, they basically said maybe he should just do manual work and forget exams. The QB test picked up very high hyperactivity but average attention.
I’m so furious as DS does have difficulties, big ones, that he’s had for years. The school say he’s bright and capable but doesn’t pay attention, forgets his stuff, can’t sit still. He’s not aggressive and is polite.
I’ve tried referring to educational psychologist but told I’d get nowhere.
Now he’s facing exams and a future with no clear idea of how to cope with his challenges, what could I do now? Obviously I’ve been helping him myself as much as a I can, talking to teachers, helping his organization skills but he really needs more expert help. Not necessarily medication but a recognition and help.