Hi all,
My son's school requested a meeting this week and asked me to take him to the GP to start the process of him being assessed/referred. They have concerns about his social interactions and his inability to cope in the classroom.
He's 7 and we've had issues with his behaviour throughout his schooling (poor impulse control which manifests as sometimes being physical with other kids; struggling to control emotions; not listening to the teacher etc) but it's never got to the stage of the SENCO being involved as he would have 'bad' weeks but then would be fine with no incidents for several weeks after. Nobody has found any obvious triggers for the behaviour.
However, since starting Y3, he's become very emotional at home and at school, he can't seem to cope with minor incidents that happen in the classroom and will either overreact or run off/hide, and school has noted that he's not very happy :(. They've been helpful in putting in some strategies to help him and my husband and I thought he would take some time to settle in - as the jump from Y2 to Y3 does seem quite big and being a summer-born, he's always struggled with the maturity side - but would ultimately be ok.
We suspected for a while there is something not quite right but thought that while he was coping at school, it wasn't worth getting him 'labelled'. However, they now feel he would benefit from being assessed and although I've tried to find out the process for this, I can't understand it fully - can someone either explain it or please send me any links? Who will the GP refer him to? And is it a very long process? School didn't say exactly what they think he should be tested for, but I would think it would be ASD from these behaviours.