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Ds1 to be allowed to try full-time school. Yippeeee!

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coppertop · 19/09/2004 13:01

Well the title probably says it all really.

Some of you may remember that the Head at ds1's school wanted him to stay part-time for the whole year. Her reasoning was that she didn't want to put him off school although I heard from others that it was more likely to be a question of funding. This was due to be reviewed at his IEP meeting later this month.

Anyway, ds1 started school this month and has done really well so far. Despite only being out of nappies for a few weeks he has coped well with using the toilet without help and so far (touchwood!) has had no accidents. Everyone has commented on how well-behaved he is. A minor miracle occurred when he actually read aloud to his teacher. He's been able to read for a long time now but strictly on his own terms and certainly never 'on demand'. I'm not sure who was most shocked - the teacher (at him reading out complete sentences) or me (at him reading aloud).

Ds1's language skills have improved so much that the SALT has said that there is very little left to teach him. Instead they will be working on things like sequencing and social skills. He is also delighted at being allowed to do lots of running, jumping and balancing as part of his sensory integration programme.

His lovely teacher (who is fantastic) has decided that he is ready to try out a full day of school to see how he copes. He may just do one full day a week and 4 half-days to start with but this will depend on how well he does. Even if it doesn't work out, at least he is being given the opportunity to try.

Yippeee!

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eidsvold · 19/09/2004 13:04

wow that is brilliant news

Twiglett · 19/09/2004 13:18

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Chocol8 · 19/09/2004 17:24

That's fantastic news Coppertop! Like you say, it's being given the opportunity - and him taking it and proving the head wrong. Brilliant, I am sure he will cope really well with all that progress! Well done little Coppertop.

Eulalia · 19/09/2004 20:25

Brilliant coppertop. Wow at your ds being able to read so well. I am sure he'll be fine with the full days. He should enjoy his lunch break and the time will allow him to develop social skills.

heartinthecountry · 19/09/2004 20:40
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Saker · 19/09/2004 20:59

That's great! He sounds like he is doing really well

Thomcat · 19/09/2004 21:00

happy is an understatement, i really am so pleased for you, that's great news

tamum · 19/09/2004 21:27

Oh coppertop, that's so lovely. He's clearly doing fantastically well, and the way his reading is streets ahead is bound to help his confidence.

blossomhill · 19/09/2004 21:43

Excellent news coppertop

Things really seem to be moving in the right direction for your ds and I am really pleased for you!

Hulababy · 19/09/2004 21:50

Fantastic news

onlyjoking9329 · 19/09/2004 21:53

great news, brill about the reading too.

coppertop · 20/09/2004 21:33

Well, ds1 had his first full day at school today. His usual teacher was away today so he had an extra change to cope with but he was absolutely fine. He came home with a small collection of good behaviour stickers.

His lovely teacher was even kind enough to contact the replacement teacher (in her own unpaid-for time) to make sure that she understood about ds1.

He was exhausted by the end of the school day so the plan is to gradually increase the number of full-time days. Hurray!

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tamum · 20/09/2004 21:36

Blimey, that's fantastic that he was OK with a new teacher on top of everything else! What a wee star he is coppertop, you must be so proud.

I keep meaning to ask, are you still worried about ds2 or has that fear receded a bit?

coppertop · 20/09/2004 21:45

Ds2 is still on the waiting list to see the Paed but we (and the Early Years/portage worker) are about as sure as we can be that he's somewhere on the spectrum. He just has too many traits now. Our portage worker is trying to get a program set up for us to help ds2 with his sensory problems and hopefully this will calm him down a little bit.

Tbh it hasn't worried me as much as I thought it would. Ds2 is fairly easy to teach and seems to be a visual learner like his brother. It's also a huge relief to have someone else IRL agreeing that there's a problem (apart from dh).

I think I'd better give ds1's old pre-school plenty of warning for when ds2 starts there next year. They're going to love me!

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tamum · 20/09/2004 21:54

I'm sorry to hear that coppertop, but with ds1 doing so well it must be easier to take, I guess. I can see what you mean about people taking you seriously, and at least you will know exactly how to help.

coppertop · 20/09/2004 22:02

Yes I think it helps a lot seeing how far ds1 has come. I think it would have been a lot harder to find out when ds1 was still having huge problems. Ds2's difficulties don't seem to affect him so much on a practical basis. Ds2's fine-motor skills are good for his age whereas ds1 at a similar age would still be using a pincer grip the whole time. The early intervention should also help a lot.

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