Hi,
DD aged 11 has been in a local authority Special School since she was 5. Over the past couple of years she has found it more and more difficult to handle the environment. She has refused school for months. She eventually returned and was happy then given another teacher and another classroom. Her anxiety and autism got so out of control that the school thought she had a mental disorder and had her referred to CAMHS. They took her out of her classroom of 5 students and put her in a room on her own with a dinner lady and a TA. They stated they were not providing her an education and their entire day was taken up trying to ease her anxiety. She was in the room every school day for 11 weeks. We were told it was temporary. Eventually, we had an emergency ECHP meeting and it was agreed that the school was no longer suitable for her needs. We discussed the type of school that would be suitable (autism specific, space to move, small class sizes, one to one attention). The local authority representative didn't bother to show up to any of the meeting we had regarding this. At that point (May), I took her out of school and kept her at home. The school were ok with this but she would remain on their books. I found a perfect school which is an independent, autism specific, farm school (animals help with her anxiety). Now it is September, the LA are telling me that they believe an area school will be suitable and they are waiting to hear back from the ones they are considering. The schools they have listed are large schools, class sizes of 10 or more students, non autism specific. I am genuinely at a loss for what to do next. DD is having meltdowns every morning because her siblings leave for school in the morning and she doesn't. She really needs to be in school and the way it is going, I think we are in for a long hard wait and a long hard battle. I don't even know how to fight this. Any advice?