DS1 (9; yr 5) was diagnosed with ASD 18 months ago. At the time (because I didn't understand ASD) I was surprised because I thought his characteristics pointed more to ADHD, mostly inattentive. His year 2 teacher completed the referral forms, and it was so starkly clear his big problems with focus, inattention, executive function, organisation, etc. However, when he was assessed, the psychologist said he considered all of it to be part and parcel of ASD. He did say, well, youu could see if he responds to medication, that's the litmus test, if he does, he has ADHD - but I didn't know what the process was for pursuing that as the service we were in right then was diagnostic only and once he had his report he was discharged with no follow up.
I have since seen our GP and mentioned it again because obviously nothing has changed in that respect. School has finally decided it would serve them to get input from the educational psychologist, despite this being one of the recommendations 18 months ago. DS has been in smaller intervention classes since yr1, but he is getting further and further behind the expected levels nevertheless.
So the Senco has filled in the forms and I saw them last night and while I am happy this is happening, my heart sank. It's exactly the same - of course - as was detailed as DS's problems 2.5 years ago, the inattention, executive functioning problems, inability to focus. (I feel sad at the time that's passed, he was 6 when he was referred and now he's 9 and just 2 yrs from high school).
What I am wondering is: would the EP's report, when we get it, carry any weight if I pursued an ADHD diagnosis now? It's not that I wish my child to be medicated but if would help him, then I would. He's a bright child and he's working way below his potential, given his intelligence.
Anyone else been through this? I am going to be seeking a needs assessment for EHCP at some point this year because high school looms and while DS is just about managing at primary, with intervention in English and maths, and social groups and ELSA input, he's not thriving in any way, even there (they only went back this week and already there are issues that require more meetings and emails with his new teacher, down to his communication problems, and following up from two internal exclusions at the end of last term) and I utterly dread the future as things stand.