I didn't know whether to post this in primary education or what...
DS1 has autism (diagnosed 18 months ago when he was in year 3). He's nearly 9 and going into year 5 in Sept. He's a bright boy but has struggled at school academically; he's an August baby. Strongly suspect that he has ADHD as well as undiagnosed learning difficulties and after an 18 month wait, things have finally got bad enough for school actually make the referral to an educational psychologist. Very long story there but they lied to me about the referral having happened well over a year ago, which I found out just last week. DS has fairly typical social struggles for an ASD child on top of that; he's had internal exclsions for violence in the playground, for example :(
In year 1 he was put in a literacy intervention class, in which he's stayed ever since. In year 3, maths intervention classes were started and he went straight in there, too. I can't go so far as to say he's flourished but he's made progress. The most significant factor in this seems to be the smaller class size with more teaching support, 12 children with 2 staff as opposed to 30 and 2 in the full class. DS struggles with focus and staying on task, organising his work; he has needed the teacher to keep him on task, and it's been notable how his behaviour, focus, attention, effort and results fall off a cliff when he's in the full class for everything other than maths and English
Now I've heard that in year 5 there will be no intervention classes. DS will therefore be in the full class all the time. I spoke with the Senco today and she was telling me about differentiation and mastery and seemed to think that it would all be fine, smaller classes wouldn't be needed. I'm prepared to be convinced but to be honest I'm struggling to believe it'll be any different for DS than all the other times he's taught in the full class. He's not been judged, otherwise, to be ready to join the full class, and I've been led to believe that if there was intervention classes, he'd definitely be in them.
He doesn't have an EHCP, though I will be applying for a needs assessment in the coming year, in advance of secondary school transfer.
Can anyone give me any information about whether it really works in practise to teach children of a wide range of abilities and needs together, without the kid who is clearly at the bottom of the heap feeling like a failure? DS was working at the highest level in his intervention classes and that has been a boost to his confidence, because all the rest of the time, he's struggling, which makes him bored and unengaged, and then he doesn't try and messes about, gets in trouble, etc etc etc, you can imagine.
I just feel really down about this. Any success stories about being able to return to mainstream and survive (even thrive?) I don't know anything about mastery or teaching methods.
Thanks for any advice. :)