My DD (12) has started secondary school this year, and it has resulted in a number of issues that were identified but kept in check becoming much more problematic. These include difficulty in putting her thoughts on paper and taking notes (she better typing than writing), poor organisation / difficulties retaining instructions etc, poor performance in formal assessment in comparison with her class work, lack of focus and concentration and difficulties maintaining friendships. She's quite immature and anxious as well as over-sensitive. She seems to have "traits" of dyslexia, dyspraxia and ADHD, but none of these really "fit the bill".
We feel we'd like her to be assessed so we can get her more support, but are not really sure where to start. The school will do basic screening for dyslexia but they have said that we would obviously need to go the medical route if we wanted to look at ADHD. We would ideally like her to have an overall screening assessment that would point to where (if any) her difficulties lie so that she doesn't feel like we're dragging her round different people - I think she would find this upsetting and demoralising. Does anyone know of any private assessment centres that would carry out a holistic general assessment that essentially screens for all these possibilities and could point to areas where more formal assessment would be important? We're in the South East.