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Is H being unreasonable, or am I?

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ManxMum · 08/04/2007 09:22

H (can't add the D bit!) has been a full-time student for the last 2 years. It has been a financial struggle, but I was led to believe that the rewards and job prospects will more than make up for it. H has taken well to student life, laying in 'til 11am and up 'til 1-2am, personal hygiene has gone out of the window and asking for help around the house, well, the cat does more. H has now decided to attend Uni in the UK for 2 more years, leaving me alone to cope with it all and this on top of me being registered a severely sight impaired and us having a SN child (cat 4+) He even wants to take our sons car with him, while we still pay for it! (I can't drive) Hey, I feel better already, just by voicing my anger with him

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bobalinga · 08/04/2007 12:47

Sounds like he's being selfish tbh. Keep the car, students don'tneed one! In fact, sell it and buy something useful to you
Maybe you need to sit down and have a frank discussion. I've seen too many women support their partner thru uni and then he spreads his wings and decides she's boring. IMO he should put you and his son first and maybe do an Open University degree so he can work and support you both while getting the qualifications he wants. Not as much fun as the student lifestyle I bet but he owes you a partnership and support.
Just my 5 eggs there

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