Ds1 (6 and with ASD) just doesn't seem to be able to cope with it. We had the same problem last year but as dd had only just been born the school staff put it down to his routine being interrupted. Yesterday morning he was tired and tearful, which I'd sort of expected. This morning he completely lost it and point-blank refused to go to school, even though he's been really enjoying it lately. It's been a while since he had a full meltdown and it really brought it home to me about how it's going to get physically harder to cope with this. He's 6 but not much smaller than I am. His strength also seems to treble when he has a meltdown.
Anyone else having problems?