We are seeing a private paediatrician tomorrow for an update on my sons progress ( sadly our local NHS service is on its knees at the moment). Because of his range of needs ( verbal dyspraxia, joint hypermobility, 'soft' signs of other neurological/ neurodevelopmental issues) I'm going to enquire whether there would be any benefits to a clinical genetics referral. This isn't in isolation, as DFIL has just. Sen diagnosed with a neurodegenerative disorder thought to be from a genetic mutation and DH and his brothers had some minor but similar issues as children. We seem to meet the criteria for referral to our local service ( provided by GOSH). What will happen if we are referred? What are the risks/ benefits? Is it normal to be offered genetic counselling before/ after testing? This is all a bit scary for me! TIA