I posted this on the main board and it was suggested that I repost here
I've posted before about problems I've had with education welfare officers, DD is disabled, there's a few factors involved that mean that her attendance is very low, under 50%.
But I have worked with the school, I have a letter from her doctor eplaining exactly what happens to her, how she suffers and how often it happens and thats in her school file, I also now get a dr's note every single time she's off to go in the file, and we have a setup with the school so she received work from them whenever shes off so she doesn't fall behind.
Now I've tolerated having her in touch with me, asking questions etc because I know it's their job and dd does have very low attendance, it has to be done etc but I have done every thing they've asked me to to satisfy them.
So I was quite happy thinking they were satisfied and I didn't have to keep justifying myself. Then last week I got another letter from them threatening that it's my responsibility they could take me to court etc dd's attendance is very low, and a date for her to come and see us at home. Getting pretty pissed off at this point and not actually going to be around on the day of her visit, I called to tell her to rearrange it if she really has to come out, she wasn't there I left a message with her collegue and told her to get her to call me aswell.
Then I called the next day then the next. She never returned any of my phone calls
Then I got another letter with a new date on, so I sat and waited and waited and waited, she never turned up!
So fast foward to today, my mum rings me up at 11. She's out shopping and she's just has this XX (ewo) calling her mobile!
Firstly I have never given my mothers numbers as a contact so wtf!
secondly she told my mother that she is very worried about Abbie, sh has tried repeatedly to get hold of me for the last few weeks regading Abies attendance and I have not returned any of her calls what frigging calls!!
She then goes on to tell my mother that she is obv aware dd has problems but she also knows that there is absolutely no reason for the level of attendance she has. So the Dr was spouting crap then..and she's qualified to say so??
I am absolutely F*G raging!! How dare she say those things, and to my mother and are they even allowed to go getting hold of your relatives phone numbers and calling them up!?
I feel thorougly harassed despite having done everything they have asked me to, and eplaining until I am blue in the face every tiny little detail about dd.
what the hell can I do about this?