HI I'm hoping someone may be able to help. I have always found 6 year old Dd difficult. I tell myself she will grow out of it. She does not understand. She's just boisterous. It's a phase things will change. It's been like it for probably over 3 years. Probably about 15 months-ish ago I took her to my gp. And I told her what had happend that I was worried. Ect the gp said she's still very young and she's probably competing for my attention...maybe she is i dont know
But when do I stop telling myself all 9f the above. I really had enough today and felt I could not copeven so I went to my temporary gp but she said she can't help as I'm only a temp patient. And I should go back to my original gp....can I insist on getting refered or do I blod on for a few more years.
Just an example for today. On bus she was being a general pain. A teenager kicked dds chair a couple of times so Dd started punching the back of the chair. Then she sat there just staring at them. Then we got of the bus and she started being aggressive shouting that she's not holding my hand I'm.a poo bum. And stuff like that. Then she said she's going home she's not coming with me. So I said ok bye. She turned and ran about 10 steps and said ok I will come you. Stupid shit poo bum. We went in a shop and she had really hyper bad body language. And calling me a stupid poo bum shit. Another adult said something and she called them a stupid poo bum. Then on the way home she kept hitting me with her bag really hard. She almost got knocked down in the shopping centre by electronic scooter. I said sorry to the lady. And when I said to Dd you could have got hurt she saidvshe don't care....it's been much worse than this. This is just today.
Anyway I really had enough so went to go and told her how difficult i find Dd. And Dd sat there laughing.
She is finevitable at school wich makes me think am I just over thinking things