I need some advice on this.
Dd is 3 and was finally officially diagnosed with ASD at the end of August. She is very bright but also VERY sensory.
She is coping 'OK' in nursery but for a number of reasons I do not believe she will at school.
She is in a lovely nursery who are so positive about her but almost to a fault. I say this because sometimes they have sent home misleading reports (I.e dd is eating a wide variety of food and playing with other children when she obviously isn't and which conflicted with reports from other staff members) that I have had to contact the manager to have corrected.
The nursery doors are always open and dd will always go outside as she says it is too noisy. On the two occasions where dd couldn't go outside due to maintenance or a rearrangement of rooms we have had to take her home because she was just having constant meltdowns.
Dd can't concentrate or even seem to hear a person speak in a relatively quiet room if there are more that a few people present.
This is as well as all the social communication problems that go hand in hand with ASD.
I've been in contact with my local authority and they've given me information that seems to say that we need evidence of her struggling in nursery before we can have an ehcp assessment.
Is this right? Of course she won't struggle in nursery. It's open plan so she can get away from all the other children (she really only likes a particular member of staff and will tolerate them doing activities with her).
She can't do that in a classroom.
The reason I'm pushing for an Ehcp is that there is a specialist school not far from us that follows the national curriculum but is specifically for children like dd who have sensory and communication difficulties but no behavioural problems. We need an ehcp before we can apply.
In contrast the one primary in our catchment area admitted to having very poor sn provision (a particularly candid staff member pointed out that dd would just be sat at the back of the class).
I'm willing to fight for it Ibjust don't really know where to start proving she need it when nursery aren't having to put anything extra in place (because dd is just sat by herself outside come rain or shine
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