Almost a year ago we had our first appointment for DD. It was meant to be with the paediatrician and SALT but due to an administration mix up, the SALT wasn't at the appointment.
The outcome of the initial appointment was for an ADOS test, but due to the long waiting list for the SALT, the ADOS was performed by a clinical psychologist.
After several delays and further appointments (the ADOS was inconclusive), DD was finally diagnosed with ASD a few months ago.
I had mentioned to the various professionals we have seen recently that DD has never been seen by a SALT. When the paediatrician gave the diagnosis she said that it "was unlikely DD needed to see a SALT as her speech is good, but that if the school felt there was a problem they could refer". It kind of felt like - you've got the diagnosis, so why do you feel you need to see the SALT??
Before the end of term we had a meeting at the school to prepare for Year 1. DD's current teacher mentioned something about did I think DD had a stammer? I immediately said "Yes!!!" as I have certainly noticed DD saying "mmm mmm mmm" quite a lot when struggling to find a particular word. But DD'so teacher then said she didn't think it was a stammer, but more that she sometimes finds it difficult to find the word she is looking for.
Anyway, I told the teacher (and the other people at the meeting) that we had never seen a SALT and that school could refer. Someone else at the meeting told me that her recent Language Link (?) score was average/above average, so if they were to refer, the referral wouldn't be accepted.
So, DH and I have got a meeting next week to discuss the ASD diagnosis (the diagnosis was given over the phone). We want to push for a SALT referral, but don't want to get fobbed off.
I don't think we'really being unreasonable to ask for an assessment, are we? Ever since starting out on this ASD 'journey' i've heard that SALTs do so much more than simply deal with speech problems, so it seems bizarre that someone with ASD hasn't been assessed.
I guess i'm posting here to find out what other people's experiences are and what terminology we might use to make our case as persuasive as possible.