I will never take ds to another party

[DorothyL]

Horrendous, I really need to accept that it doesn't work

Feel awful!

ps. we don't do parties now! Its not necessary for life and less stressful for everyone.

Ds loved parties. He didn't cope other them though. He just didn't see what was wrong with him running around like a loon bouncing off everyone!

dorethy I'd also say just do what yiur DS can cope with. Ime most people prefer you to be honest than ignore the elephant in the room! Also Ime if people can see you are trying to support DS they are quite accepting of the behviours.

moo that sounds great. I'd be happy as a parent you were thinking of my DS and what might help him.