Good advice, dont stand for wishy washy words, like appropriate, reasonable, etc.
In terms of OT time, worth it to ask for OT to be made an educational provision and not a medical one. Same for SLT, make sure that SLT is an educational provision and get these hours quantified, by whom and where.
Be sure to ask on the board, when you get the statement, what peoples opinions are of the "wordage". Happy to help. I went through this for over a year, wrangling back and forth and finally got what i wanted, but only because i wouldnt relent. They count on parents giving up, or not knowing their rights.
read your code of practice as well, front to back! There is an assumption that statemets change drastically from year to year. Guess what, they dont. This first statement sets the benchmark for your child's future entitlements. make it the best she is ever going to get.