DS has been formally excluded twice (for a day each time) and informally - yes, illegally - excluded a couple more times i.e. school has rung us and begged us to pick him up.
He is four years old and has diagnosed ASD/PDA. There is no EHCP in place yet, but the process has been started. He does not yet have a one to one but the head is finally coming around to the idea.
The grounds the school gives for these exclusions and the illegal informal exclusions is "health and safety".
How reasonable is this? It's hard to argue when they say they have had to evacuate the classroom for everyone's safety when he melts down. I don't want to appear unreasonable as it's clear they're desperate, but at the same time I would like to know the law in this area!