ineed that's fantastically useful information.....
Op, an Ep assessment wasn't on the cards for us until after diagnosis. It took just over two years to get the diagnosis. School thought I was mad, neurotic; said I needed to put in place better boundries at home. Dds CT as the time said she had an autistic nephew and she knew autism, DD defiantly didn't have autism. It was always thrown back in my face that did was academically above her targets, proof, clearly, that she was NT
. Now, dd7.5 has been diagnosed with HFA PDA.
I've fought such a battle to get here, that I really didn't know what to expect from the EP. wasn't great, only picked up social issues, esp as DD was coping at school. Dh and I piped up pretty quickly that she was not coping at school, or why would she be self harming at home?? I did point out that they keep putting her in the top or second from top group without actually ever listening to her read (PDA - always refused to read at home!). There was no comeback for them, the diagnostic report clearly illustrates that did is constantly showing signs of anxiety at school
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Further reading after the meeting shows that perhaps did should have an iq test and an assessment of her learning profile. How could they not think that was important? We spoke to dds psych and she said why she can't tell them what to do, she was happy to come to school to meet with senco/ed psych and ask them what they had done and make suggestions. So, ineed your account is a good example of best practice/what to expect. I agree with polter that a through EP assessment should be a part of the overall assessment, as should Salt and OT (not given to us).
So, op, would your pead be able to make that call to school to ask them on your behalf?? Shame them into doing the right thing, perhaps? Or, could they write a letter detailing how dd is not coping at school? Then, I think ensuring that you get a good EP assessment. I think that ours was shit. We had to describe dd, and they are building a plan around that? I'm not an EP, why are they letting me decide?