Thanks zzzzzzzzz
We can eventually manage to get him out of bed after some time,he usually gets up at weekends,the child has never had a proper lie in even weekends hes up early, he doesnt go to the loo first thing, he usually goes just before school as he will not go to the toilet in school and at the moment all he is having for breakfast is a tiny morsel of fruit which i dont understand as he has a huge apptite, yet he hardly eats his packed lunch? he does however eat at lot at home at nightime.
Most times i am finding now i am having to get him ready, some days he will do it himself and he hates his uniform, the other day he was kicking off all morning and i ended up taking him in jeans and t shirt, dont think the head teacher was amused as she called me mrs when she usually calls me by my first name, however the way i saw it at least we got him in at 12pm after a meltdown for hours.
We normally drive to school on a good day he will happily get in the car and go no problem.
At the moment he is going through the office doors as to avoid the playground and cloakroom however he still kicks off, the problem is school itself, i firmly belive now if he diddnt have school i feel meltdowns would be rare,we avoid the supermarkets too. They are supposed to be going on a trip and hes saying he doesnt want to go hed rather stay at shool and do work.
Theres also another boy in his class that he clashes with,this other boy has sen, my son has taken a bad disliking to him. My son is also obssesed with this boy and something this boy has done a while ago plays on my sons mind.
My mother died in October this is when it all started as i let him have a few days off school, then my aunty died last sunday and i diddnt tell him, of course hes heard me on the phone a few nights ago and its came out when hes been kicking off tonight, i diddnt want to tell him as its a lot to deal with so close to my mother going.