DS (5) was referred back in April due to behavioural probs (explosive, angry, violent outbursts), struggling to make friends and some oral sensory signs.
He has been up and down for years and we are on a better wave at the moment. Friend issues seem to have improved and he is doing really well at school - academically over a year ahead of where he should be and not disruptive to class.
We had our 2nd paediatric appointment on Tuesday and in his opinion DS has asd. He asked if we wanted to accept the formal diagnosis and only to make it official if we feel it would benifit DS.
I feel confused (I find it odd I get to choose).
DS doesn't need any extra help at school, so doesn't need funding.
As I understand from a parent point of view, diagnosis won't change anything - I just need to research and try different techniques with him.
Paediatrician said we would be offered genetic blood testing if we accepted diagnosis, but would I be able to do this privately if I wanted?
I don't want my son being labelled.
I don't want my decision to hinder him in the future (job applications, driving license, ability to travel, insurance).
I would appreciate people's opinion as I'm feeling so confused. I just want to do the right thing by him.