I thought that the SN boards members would be able to tell me if this is worthwhile or just pointless.
Youngest ds, now 15, was diagnosed with Hypermobility syndrome and chronic pain syndrome by GOSH aged 10. They identified some psychological issues regarding the chronic pain but felt he could be supported by local services.
To cut a long story short, the local services never stepped up. Physio was helpful but said they felt there was little they could offer as psychological factors were kicking in. CAHMS said they couldn't help as they could not separate what was psychological from what was physical and they thought ds was "unsuitable" for CBT.
A lovely paediatrician saw ds for a long while (liaising with school to establish ds's condition was genuine) but discharged him as all he could offer was pain meds that didn't really work. During all this time ds has hardly made it into school (attendance often down to 22%) and has never got properly in control of the pain and mobililty issues.
Last year I got annoyed with all the media reports of our relatively new local integrated pain services for adults. There is no support for under 18's
In a fit of peak when coming across something on the local health commissioning board website asking for feedback I posted "Why no integrated pain services for under 18's? Wasted lives!" They then took this up as an official complaint but when I finally got the result it just said we don't offer integrated pain services for under 18's, went through a list of all the people ds has seen (physio- discharged, camhs - discharged, paed - discharged) - as if I didn't know about all this! Then suggested referral back to paed.
Well he was already back with paed just before the result of the complaint came out but as ds turns 16 later this month he is about to enter the great void that is 16 - 18 services (i.e. nothing much). His paed (lovely man) is trying to find someone who will see ds in this time.
I've managed, through my own research, to get ds referred to Bath Pain Services (a national resource that does help under 18s as well as adults) and he's got a one week inpatient course there over the summer.
Is it worth carrying on with the complaint about the lack of local service? Or am I just banging my head against the wall? I feel sort of guilty that some poor soul has had to produce this list of people/places who ds has been referred to over the years which is just daft as I have made it clear to them I'm not complaining about the people he's seen, I'm complaining that there is no appropriate provision for under 18's. I know there are others out there locally in the same position. Surely we can't all leave our children festering until they get to be adults. Is it fair to expect everyone to go to Bath?