Sent off my parental request a couple of weeks ago for my 6yo DS. He has ASD, a hearing impairment and attention difficulties (possible ADHD).
He attends a small village MS primary school with a SNs units. He's in Y1 and is still working on P scales his maths, reading and writing. He's had access to our schools unit for over 12 months, for literacy and in the classroom he is in a small group with the children who have a place in our schools IR unit. So lots of support is already in place for him. His school is fabulous, very experience and inclusive. Despite the support they have given him DS has made very little progress. His behaviour in school whilst occasionally challenging is MUCH better than at home, he's a bottle it up for home type.
I spent many weeks doing our application and completing the parental evidence forms, since sending it i have of course been feeling like a nervous wreak, but quite positive. Till yesterday when i had a chat with one the parents at our school summer fayre. She works in the SEN department at our LEA. She said that basically because DS hasn't yet seen the educational psychologist we have no chance of the LEA agreeing to assess at all
. School have been in contact with EP and have spoke informally with her regarding DS (she in our school lots because of the high % of children with SNs in our school) but they have not bothered to do a formal referral. Of course like most schools their SNs budget isnt a bottomless pit so i assume this is why to date they've not referred him. School speaking to the EP has been confirmed by the EP in the the paperwork she has be requested to provide the LEA she says they spoke to her in November (when they asked her for a referral form), December of last year and February and April of this year.
I feel defeated before ive even had the LEAs response. The other school Mum mentioned that our LEA offer mediation if they refuse to assess and this has to be done before appeal, and that they are now offering something called My plan, they use this over a prolonged period prior to considering an EHCP in some cases, she said these work well but by that point of our conversation my mind had gone blank, so i didn't fully understand what she was on about.
I know i need to just sit tight, but if anyone could offer their thoughts and experience id be very grateful.