I'm new and hoping for a little advice/support.
DS1 will be three at the end of this month and he's being assessed for ASD. I feel confident he's on the spectrum. My sister was diagnosed a couple of years ago and we've all become a lot more knowledgeable on ASD since then. He's had an initial hour and a half appointment with a paediatrician and has an appointment with a child psychologist in July.
That was all fine. I felt quite happy with how it was all progressing.
But recently I've had it suggested to me he may have SPD. I looked into it and he certainly does have many traits and it often goes hand in hand with ASD so I thought I'd mention it at his next appointment.
Then my mum suggested he may also have PDA. I didn't really think about it until it was featured on a TV programme the other night and I looked into that as well. Other than a delay in speech (DS1 has always been slightly advanced in his speech, though it can be quite quirky), DS1 does display all the traits mentioned on the PDA page on the National Autistic Society website. It would explain why he has so many autistic traits and has always been such hard work but there are a few elements of ASD that don't quite 'fit' (if that makes sense).
But now I feel a bit overwhelmed. Where do I go from here? A lot of professionals and LAs don't even recogise PDA. I don't know much about it compared to my knowledge of ASD. I'll mention it at his next appointment but they said at his age it was unlikely he'd get an ASD diagnosis and more likely they'd agree to review him again in a year or two so the chances of any further diagnoses seem slim.
Does anyone have experience of SPD and/or PDA alongside ASD? Did that diagnosis come after the ASD one? Is there any advice you'd give?