In brief.. DS2, nearly 18, ASD, LD, at special needs college but wants to leave this summer . His Statement ceased at 16 as his special school only went to 16 and college did a S139 (their version but not legally binding)
So... we applied for an EHCP. He has social services funding of a small personal budget for when he leaves, adult LD SS have taken him on, he is acknowledged to have significant support needs.
Verbally the LEA told me he would have his S139 converted to an EHCP. Then today (saturday of course!) I get the letter saying panel have turned him down as he has SS funding, and the local offer can meet his needs as he is staying on college roll to do an apprenticeship (a SN one)
He's not. We considered it but he and we have decided against it. So he won't be on a college roll, he will be in the big wide world with fuck all support other than a few hours personal budget to use, and no educational plan in place for an 18 yr old who still believes in santa and has limited independence skills.
I am steaming (oh and the letter had the wrong name on the second page.. my DS2, Charlie, is apparently now called Ryan !) Apparently my application was being supported..by someone I have never heard of... crock of shit all round.
BUT I am wondering how much it is worth fighting for. Realistically he's not going to be in education any longer, he has SS support.. and we have to find a way for him to be occupied and have self worth as an adult. The only thing we really wanted out of the EHCP was his future independent living plans.. is it worth fighting? We don't have money to pay for lawyers etc :/