Back to school we go ............. :-(

[frazzledbutcalm]

Back to school after the Easter holidays ............. the usual expected stresses, anxieties, worries

I feel for you all so much
Can someone send a these links to Timson (and Blunkett) to show how inclusion is taking its toll on all your kids

Again and again, the kids are suffering for one man's ideal. They should not be paying for this.

Like they care senvet sleeping soundly with their big fat wage packets under their pillows!!

my dd is a mess - we had an indie salt assessment at home on Saturday with MS - we did okay until she was asked about school then she was violently sick so had to end the assessment.

then today I found a note on her ipad to me asking me to go into school and look at her workbooks as she has wrote dates and names of when she is being bullied. I contacted school - they checked one of her books and found nothing so completely dismiss what my dd had said and put it down to her starting her periods so shes 'hormonal' picked dd up from school and I asked her about the note and she explained that she has wrote in her books at the back and its in all of the books so guess a little trip into the classroom is needed tomorrow for dd to show me what she has been writing.

why the teacher didn't quietly ask dd about it god only knows instead of basically dismissing her a fabricating it all. shes 11 years old for gods sake with asd - her world is black and white, this is something she would not lie about

That's awful bkj Dd was bullied in yr5. School were quite good, until I mentioned dd was being assessed for asd ... then they said dd was misinterpreting the other girls remarks/bullying!

Hope you get things sorted.

bjk .....

that's what we get now frazzled that shes is misinterpreting things which to a point I agree BUT she has a blooming social and communication disorder and her statement (although dire) does say she should be have social skills help every day which is not happening as its all sats sats sats. my dd also doesn't lie and wouldn't make it up that she has wrote this.

im off in today to look at one of her books which is going to be fun as her twin brother who is at a different school still on holiday so will have him with me as well. not sure how im going to react if I find the things she has wrote after the school totally dismissed it yesterday

9 week to tribunal, 12 weeks to end of term - the end is in sight but if this is only day 2 of the term im in for a fun time.

The bullying dd endured (school classed it as bullying, not me) was the other girl (we now call her snooty pants) would look at dd work and say it was all wrong - it wasn't, she'd answer dd name in the register and say dinners - dd was pack lunch, she wouldn't let her on the grass in the yard, she'd kick her under the table, ask to be in dd pe group then tell her she was doing everything wrong ... the list goes on. There were things every day. Every day. Dd developed globus hystericus because of snooty pants. It was a horrible time.
I hope you get sorted today.
I don't understand tribunals, but I hope that goes well.

I've just had txt from dd1, can I pick her up from school, she's been put on inclusion for having the wrong shoes. She didn't want to go this morning anyway and said she wouldn't stay the full day
Dd2 - couldn't even speak to her this morning. I have a meeting with her Senco on Thursday.
Ds2 - He went but is back to his emotional, anxious self.

It's only day 2