Hello,
Would appreciate some guidance around the minefield that is childcare for a child with SN. DS currently has three sessions per week at a SN school which totals 8 hours of provision. He's taken a long time to settle but now loves the time he spends there and we already see a difference in him. The rest of the time he is with either grandparents and I am with him two full days (work part time).
Problem is he is very very very difficult to stimulate, has poor attention, little interest in play and would happily watch TV all day if you let him. He is non verbal but very sure minded and gets very frustrated if he doesn't get what he wants immediately.
I know grandparents would like to pull back from childcare and I am loathe to reduce work as my mental health really struggles when full time at home. So we need to think about how to restructure our week and childcare. Ideally his time at school would increase, even another session would benefit him but we have been told they wouldn't expect him to get any more sessions until at least the next academic year.
Obvious alternative is a nanny but I really think he thrives in a group setting, school have also said they don't think he would cope with mainstream at this stage.
Anyone else been in a similar position? Where does the 15 hours for three year olds come I to it, is there a system to appeal for more hours?
Not sure what best route to take is and would appreciate any of you wise suggestions.