My ds is 4.5 and is on the spectrum they say it's high functioning his quirks and routines are grinding me down. We have done nothing this . Half term due to him freaking out and going off on one each time we try. His poor sister is fed up with him if she has a toy he automatically takes it off her and plays with it hes obssesd with squeaky toys and will constantly squeak them 24/7. He's a lovely boy but hates the holidays with a passion if he could be at school every day he would be. He hates birthdays Xmas Easter you name it. He has also developed a accent we are country people and he has a very noticeable london accent we know no one with a London accent. He also has to count everything 1_10. I feel stuck and dreading the holidays all his friends mums say they love it but we don't we are either stuck indoors because it's too sunny too cold too rainy etc (his words not mine) or we have to go one place in town soft play. Me and hubby take it in shifts to do the jobs we need to do is shopping bank etc as he won't come. He is very strong and can easily have me over which usually is part of his display /freak out. I try and be stern if needed he doesn't listen. I feel like I'm hitting my head against a brick wall and we are stuck like this forever! Help