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WellTidy · 12/11/2014 13:33

We have aranged a private ed psych assessment for nearly 7 yo Year 2 DS, as his school has suggested that he may have dyslexia. This came as a complete shock to us, as there is no history of it in the family.The more that I have thought of it though, I see dyslexic traits in him, and I also see signs of dyspraxia and dyscalculia, but I am trying my hardest to keep an open mind.

The local branch of the BDA gave us a list of childrens ed psychs who were known to them, and we have arranged for the assessment to be done next week. The ed psych herself was a little reticent to do the assessment due to his age, but school were pushing for it as the felt that not having one was holding him back, and that they wanted to use the recommendations and analysis to know how they could help him best.

From our perspective as parents, we think that having the report and recommendations will allow the school to come up with a plan (a month or so?), we will give them time to implement that plan (a term?), and then, in time, we can decide whether we are happy with this, or whether we need to look for another school for DS. He might then move schools to start Year 3.

DS is very, very happy at school, and we would be reluctant to move him. Ideally, we want to work with the school, and for them to put whatever he needs in place. But his school in very small (80 odd children) and very, very traditional. I am not sure whether they have the resources to help him long term (if indeed he is diagnosed as having SEN).

I am completely clueless as to SEN, and how they are dealt with in pivate schools. I see lots of references to local authorities on here, and applying for extra funding and statements and EHCs and I have no idea what to do for my DS as he is in a private school.

Does our plan of action sound reasonable to you with experience of children with SEN? Is there anything more I should be doing please?

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WellTidy · 19/11/2014 12:33

It is a private ed psych, yes. DS is only 6 (in Year 2). I don't think I would have any luck in getting a state ed psych in to assess him.

The head and deputy head are agreed on this. It is a blanket policy (eg they don't allow SLTs to go in either). There is no board of governors as far as I am aware.

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WellTidy · 19/11/2014 12:34

Bilberry that is good advice about considering how much I want to reveal to the school. Thank you. I hadn't thought of it.

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zzzzz · 19/11/2014 12:39

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WellTidy · 19/11/2014 12:47

yes, it is priivately owned. it is owned by the head.

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zzzzz · 19/11/2014 13:55

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Firstnamelastname · 19/11/2014 15:55

What about looking at plan B options anyway even though it might not come to that
It doesn't cost anything to go on a wait list
Also I have noticed that with DHs (being listened to more) too, odd isn't it!

WellTidy · 19/11/2014 16:01

Our first choice alternative school will not let him go onto their waiting list until he has spent a day there. And I don't want him to spend a day there as then I would have to explain to him why, and he loves his current school, wouldn't want to leave and would grieve for it.

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HiawathaDidntBotherTooMuch · 19/11/2014 18:50

It is private, yes. I know very little about its SN support. It is a very small school, and no child, to my knowledge has SN. That obviously doesn't mean that no child has SN. It's just that I don't know of any, and I know lots of parents. It's a very small, academic school - there is more about it in my OP. There is a SEN policy on the website. It reads very well.

HiawathaDidntBotherTooMuch · 19/11/2014 18:52

Sorry! I should say that I am now posting on the app, and my username on the app is HiawathaDidntBotherTooMuch. I am WellTidy (OP) on the desktop. I have two user names as I couldn't remember my passwords so re-registered ages ago.

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HiawathaDidntBotherTooMuch · 19/11/2014 20:26

Sorry for misunderstanding! Yes, the next school would also be private. But a bigger school, with full time Senco.

EyeoftheStorm · 19/11/2014 20:39

DS2's private school has a SENCO and is very proactive in this area.

DS2 has OT weekly at school (an OT we found) and I know his teachers wouldn't hesitate to let any other professional we thought was necessary observe him in class. They have had several meetings with the OT, read her reports and implemented her suggestions.

This is just to show that some schools do these things as a matter of course. I don't need to hide information about DS2 or try to force them to do things for him because they see it all as part of the education they are providing. We're all on the same page.

It's a one form, non-selective prep school.

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clairewitchproject · 19/11/2014 22:20

I am an ed psych and I would not be able to do a proper assessment without seeing the child in the school context. I would be extremely upset that the school is for no clearly explained reason preventing someone from doing a proper job, that you are paying for at their insistence. I don't like the cut of this school's jib, I am afraid.

HiawathaDidntBotherTooMuch · 20/11/2014 13:30

Claire, can you tell me why please you feel that you need to see the child within the school setting? I don't know how to push this. There is a blanket refusal to allow any external person into the classroom eg SLT, ed psychs. But other parents have told me that if the school didn't want my child there, they would tell me in mo uncertain terms!

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clairewitchproject · 20/11/2014 18:46

Hiawatha, it's because you can't say a child is dsylexic without having a chance to see what sort of teaching they are having - part of the Rose report definition of dyslexia includes a reference to having appropriate teaching over time, and the teaching may need modifying, or I may notice social communication difficulties, the teacher may be crap / not differentiating etc etc, the room may be noisy and I may notice the child struggling to differentiate sound in a loud environment but OK in a one to one (classic auditory processing issue and quite a common cause of slow development of spelling and reading skills). Any assessment of a child should always be in context, because not all problems are entirely 'within the child' but can arise, be exacerbated or ameliorated by the child's profile of skills and the classroom context they find themselves in.

WellTidy · 24/11/2014 08:43

Thank you all for your input.

The ed psych did her report on Friday. She was able to conclude that she did not blieve him to edeyslexic, but she did believe him to be dyspraxic.

I am going to push again for the school to allow the ed psych into the classroom. I just know though that I am going to get a blanket 'no' again. Today will be spent drafting an email based on what you have said zzzzz and claire so thank you.

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