Ds2 has a lot of dyspraxic traits, huge problems with motor skills and co-ordination and motor planning. (He also has speech and language and communication difficulties possibly autistic although no diagnosis and not typical if he is). It is amazing to me that no-one seems prepared to diagnose dyspraxia. Anyway I am thinking of pushing for a diagnosis as his teacher thinks it might help us to get a statement which he needs to go to special school from the unit that he is in. I am seeing his consultant soon and wondered about asking for referral to a neurologist - I have even wondered if his problems are something more than dyspraxia as I am often hearing of kids with lesser difficulties who have a diagnosis of dyspraxia and I wondered if a neurologist could help sort that out. Has anyone any experience of this or any advice - I am really struggling to know what to do about Ds2's motor difficulties, school seem to find them unbelievably bad yet we have seen a succession of OTs who do nothing really except offer vague advice about getting him to cross the midline etc etc