I had a meeting today with SENCO, class teacher, headteacher about DS1's progress and the interventions they have put in place for him. It all sounds like they're on the ball and doing loads of really good stuff for him. They're happy to refer to an Educational Psychologist and they have had other people in to assess him from the local SEN unit.
The head though seemed to think his progress would be slow and that he's not going to catch up with his peers - he's in Y3. He's likely to get an ASD diagnosis although there are no guarantees.
I just feel so bloody sad for him. He's so clever and at the moment the difference between him and his peers is relatively small but basically this teacher is saying despite all the intervention its just going to get bigger. He's going to know and I hate the thought of his self esteem spiraling downwards which to me seems inevitable. I'm so worried for him and for the future. I feel guilty because I know how lucky I am in some regards he's healthy and at the moment he's happy but I'm terrified of the future. I so want him to prove her wrong but I know I can't make that happen and it upsets me that I can't fix this for him. I'm not sure what I want from posting. Can she be so sure that a 7 year old child is academically going to be significantly behind for the rest of his school life?