Hi. Quite gutted to be posting this.
I strongly suspect DS (14 months) has ASD. Development all seemed fine until just before his first birthday when I started noticing certain signs.
We are already running a part-time ABA programme for his sister, DD (4.4, diagnosed with autism at 4, high functioning). She has just started reception and is doing mornings at school with tutoring at home in the afternoons (started ABA aged 3.11). I observe how our tutors work with DD, but because of the age difference between her and DS, and because she can articulate/negotiate things such as doing some work for her preferred reinforcers, I can't really work out how to translate the principles to work for a very young, non-verbal toddler.
So, what I want to ask advice about is this: are there any age appropriate ABA approaches I can use for DS at the moment to give him a head start and make the most of what I read about the young brain's supposedly amazing 'plasticity'?
I guess I am thinking along the lines of things like trying to get him to look at me if I am giving him something he wants, for example. (At the moment he just looks at the desired object in my hand, and doesn't look at me when I hand it over or once he has it.) Also, are there any other tips for positively reinforcing interactive behaviours (I already give lots of claps, verbal praise, hugs, kisses etc), and for simply making
interacting with me and others more reinforcing in and of itself?
Obviously the logical person to ask about all this would be DD's programme consultant, and I intend to in due course, but tbh I am just not quite ready to 'out' my anxieties about DS just yet, not least because he is so little still and I suppose there is a chance I might be jumping the gun, (although I don't think so), and also because there are issues with DH's acceptance of the implications of DD's diagnosis, and he already thinks I am an over-anxious worrier, seeing problems where there are none in relation to DD, and I frankly can't face another round of incredulity and denial just at the moment. Will save it for later!
Any advice/pointers much appreciated, thanks.