ugger Antenna just picked up the TOWIE bat-signal 
billiejeanbob Sorry - haven't been on the board for a while so didn't realise that you'd "won". Well done, I hope you got all the provision your child needs.
At my Tribunal, the LA rep didn't threaten me with words, but by her body language towards me during the hearing, and her overall conduct of my case throughout our 18 months of sheer hell, to put it bluntly, I knew I had to get her before she got me. By the way she acted during the hearing, I knew that one day, if I didn't get her, I would see her in a Tribunal hearing again.
So I did complain and went through the entire complaints process within the LA. When that was (predictably) not satisfactory, I went on up the food chain to the LGO. Who ultimately found in my favour. I received a written and verbal apology from the LA along with several undertakings from them including that
- this woman would not be allowed near my DS's case ever again (although I have seen her name copied into some recent emails)
- instead, all correspondence about my DS and his SEN has to go through the senior manager of the entire SEN dept.
- additionally, all future decisions regarding my DS's education future would first go through senior management within my LA. This includes someone about 3rd-in-command over the whole LA (ie not just the SEN department).
- They were also ordered by the LGO to tighten up a lot of their processes.
Was it worth it? Well, it was very very stressful going through the entire complaints process and there was no financial compensation (but this wasn't about money). BUT I feel that I've protected my son's future because my DS's file at the LA has a massive great big flashing red light with alarm bells screeching out at the highest decibals. Any dealings with me (from the lowest to the highest) since the LGO upheld my complaint have been very respectful towards me. It's that old saying, keep your friends close to you, but your enemies closer...
I also knew that I'd won the Tribunal at a very vulnerable stage in my DS's educational future. I "won" as he went into year 5, so I knew that at year 6 review/transition, they could take away the hard fought provision he'd got. But with the LGO's findings, the LA wouldn't dare try to change it because they knew I'd be straight back to Tribunal and would also be able to show the Judge that, if they had attempted to remove the provision, this would have been done so close to LGO upholding my complaint so I could argue that the LA was acting in revenge.
I made my complaint very very specific - that they'd breached a specific piece of legislation within the Education Act and a specific clause in the SEN CoP. I ignored all the bullying and intimidation I'd had to put up with for 18 months. So my advice is, if you complain, go for a very very specific breach or an administrative failure. The LGO will be able to investigate breaches in applying the law or administrative failure - but they won't be able to investigate bully-boy tactics.
Also, whilst you go through the entire complaints process (it took over 6 months in my case), the LA would not dare do anything like calling an interim annual review because they'd risk too much with the LGO to do such a thing.
It was highly stressful pursuing my complaint. But I do feel it was worth it. The more people that complain, the better. LAs cannot be allowed to get away with their illegal and immoral actions
Although perhaps my LA need another rocket up their bum, because my DS's AR was 4 months ago and I still haven't received the revised Statement. I feel a polite but firm email to my new-best-friend is just about to be written...