Hi there
Feeling a bit lost regarding schools
I have a son who is 6 yrs old and just gone into year 2 at a local mainstream with a SALT provision.
He is statemented for SEN in speech, language and communication and has a place on the specialist SALT ARP there. He was diagnosed with a language disorder when he was 3 yrs old.
In the last year or so it became apparent that his primary need is now social communication and it's his biggest barrier to learning and making friends. However, whilst he has made good progress with his language development it still continues to be quite disordered. He has quite a complex profile. He hasn't been diagnosed with ASD yet although his pediatrician has noted he does have some traits including sensory processing difficulties. As the provision at his current school is solely speech and language they were concerned that they are no longer able to meet his needs so they advised us to go and look at other mainstream schools last term with ASD units. We looked at a few and there was only one we liked and felt was suitable for DS so we notified the LA that we wanted him to start there this Sep but then they told us at the last minute there were no spaces for this Sep. We were really disappointed and felt let down that the LA had failed to find a suitable school for him and we didn't think it was acceptable to put his educational needs on hold for a year so we instructed an SEN solicitor to start legal proceedings and are now fighting to get him into an independent school which is more local and is for kids with mild disabilities including high functioning autism, speech and language, dyslexia etc. I have now instructed a private SALT, Ed psyc and OT to carry out an assessment.
DS is going for a 3 day assessment as the independent school next week and should they offer him a place we would need our LA to fund it which is why we are going down the legal route (they currently fund other kids from our county who go there so i know its not impossible).
To put a spanner in the works, I then get a phone call last week from my LA officer to say a space has become available at the mainstream school with the ASD unit and so have offered ds a place. its quite likely they have heard through school we are going down the legal route and possibly tribunal and they are panicking as they don't want to fund the fees at the private school. Too much of a coincidence! I have told them I needed time to think about it.
Im so confused as to what I should do. Do kids with language, communication and sensory processing difficulties do better in independent schools where yes the classes are smaller and there is lots of specialist support but then you perhaps don't have the good role models as your peers are also faced with complex difficulties OR is a mainstream perhaps better where there is also specialist help as well as good role models?
I just want him to be happy and to become the best that he can be.
Sorry this is so long!!!!
Thanks for reading and hope I haven't bored you too much!