After being referred back in February, we have our appointment with a paed tomorrow about DD's social communication/queried ASD (a few days before her fourth birthday; I wish someone would time these appointments a bit better for the sanity of the parents!). I'm going round in the circles tonight in my head about it.
We already are part of a (rather disjointed) multidisciplinery team already and have been using ASD stratergies for the last few months so really, on one hand I don't give a hoot what happens, but on the other for my own peace of mind, I feel like I need it to move forward rather than the standard "we'll give it another year and then revisit it". It's been a struggle getting people on board and part of me is scared that tomorrow I'm just going to be told I'm overreacting and some of the support will be scaled back as a result.