Please or to access all these features

SN children

Here are some suggested organisations that offer expert advice on special needs.

SEN Undiagnosed for 6 Years At Top Independent School

1 reply

JFK92NSOK95 · 28/08/2014 05:26

My son attended a top independent boarding school for six years. His SEN went undiagnosed until a private A Level tutor I hired prior to A2 exams in May 2014 suggested I get an Educational Psychologist to assess him.

My background is that I was widowed unexpectedly when my boys were five and seven. My boys are mixed race and I decided that I would educate them privately to ensure they did maximised their academic and personal potential. I selected boarding school as we lived in Central London and the nature of my work was unpredictable, long hours and often away from home. This was done at great personal and financial cost.

The school concerned have taken no responsibility saying they could not have known my son had a SEN. I find this difficult to accept given they have an excellent SEN Centre. Also, their pre A Level testing showed my son to have an extremely low centile (7) for reading comprehension (I requested a copy of this test after the Head mentioned it in his correspondence to me)

I need some advise and support as I feel the school concerned have let my son down, potentially damaging his future prospects. Also, I feel they have not delivered the service I paid for.

I would appreciate any advise

OP posts:
BigBird69 · 03/09/2014 10:00

I know this might sound harsh, but I don't really see how you can blame the school if you didn't notice yourself until now? How does your son feel? Have you raised concerns with school over the past years? SEN is a big difference from not getting the exam results you had hoped for. You sound like maybe you are looking for someone to blame because of your own "personal and financial sacrifice". I can understand if you have spent the whole of his school career raising concerns - have you anything in writing? school reports saying the opposite to concerns you have raised etc?

New posts on this thread. Refresh page