My DS is 5 and is very able. He has Aspergers and is in process of getting NHS diagnosis. I applied for Statutory assessment a year ago, but school said he was progressing really well and didn't see issues. LA refused to assess and I accepted school's word that he was managing well so didn't appeal.
What I have now realised is that "managing well" means he is not disruptive or defiant. He certainly isn't progressing well, as he does the same thing over and over again during school - usually writing lists of the names of the children in his class or lists of numbers. He finds the lunch hall difficult because of noise, crowds and smell. Despite numerous requests, meetings etc and DS being on SA+, school won't put any alternative provision in place at lunchtime and SENCO and Headteacher have said at different times that they are too busy to meet with me - they avoid me! DS skills with numbers have gone backwards as he has not been challenged at all in his reception year, although I have made myself a pain in the backside asking.
What can I do? I would move him to another state school but don't know which might be more inclusive and clued up (I'm in Sutton). I have almost given up with his current school. If I apply now to LA, do I apply for Statutory Assessment again or is there a new process for EHCP?
Thanks for reading. Any ideas on schools or advice on next steps?