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Jimjams2 · 13/09/2006 14:36

If you're fed up of the food threads, if you're having a nightmare........ very good and useful article here

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Jimjams2 · 13/09/2006 22:06

When ds1 ended up in hospital they said his bladder had gone into spasm. They gave him calpol (and tried to give him nurofen but it wasn't pink so they ended up wearing it) and then he was able to go.

This has just occurred to me on another thread but I do think associations are huge. So say ds1 was eating a food when a loud noise he didn't like went off outside that could lead to that food being off the menu for ever. He's done this sort of thing with other things (like refusoing to go in a friends house for almost a year- something to do with her upstairs but we never worked out what).

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riab · 22/01/2007 18:19

Yiou know i have got so mad when I get that "withholding food until the child is hungry enough to eat" thing. DS has never eaten well and he has frequently not only failed to gain weight in a month but actually lost weight, his chart goes up and down like a yo-yo.

If I didn't insist on feeding him it could be only 3 meals a wek he would show any interest in, anything at all will distract him from eating.

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Jimjams2 · 22/01/2007 23:13

ds1's eating has come on enormously, but he still has to be made to eat a lot. Complete lack of motivation. I do know what you mean.

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Jimjams2 · 22/01/2007 23:25

Everything and anything until regression when he cut down to bread and cheerios. Went gluten free, gluten free bread and cornflakes!

School sorted him tbh, cannot take any credit.They started by getting some crisps breaking them into quarters and putting a tiny bit of baked bean sauce on them. Worked up to one baked bean between two halves of one crisp, and so on - "crisp sandwiches" Now we do more "big mouthful first" *then reinforcer) but he's eating casseroles, meat, lasagne, mashed potato, veg if I grate and hide it. etc etc. It did take school a year to go from baked bean tiny sauce, to casserole eating.

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commutingmum · 23/01/2007 13:13

Hello am new to mumsnet and loving your advice on eating hve DS on Spectrum who mainly eats toast and cheerios. Anyone had any experience of testing for "leaky gut" and gluten intolerance? Feel massive guilt that he is allergic 2 only foods he will eat

jenk1 · 23/01/2007 15:45

hello communtingmum, i dotn have any experience of leaky gut syndrome but someone will be along soon who does ive no doubt.

I have a problem with food, from my childhood, my mum always blamed school but i couldnt get her to see that i was affected before that because i was made to eat whatever was offered and i would cry and cry , i remember her saying if you dont eat the tomatoes you will go to bed hungry and i did!!! i didnt care, the thought of putting a cold tomato in my mouth made me (and still does) want to vomit, im like this with strawberries,kiwi fruit,grapefruit, i desensitised myself to mushrooms it took until i was 30 though!!!!!

When i was a teenager i survived on a diet of white bread,chips and gravy and hardly ate anything else, even now i still eat virtually the same things that i have been doing for years and if something new comes out i cant bear to try it cos it might not "feel right".

DD is very strict with her diet, that link described her perfectly, she mainly eats mashed potato and beans and yoghurts (no bits) she has a thing about white and orange foods!!!!!

DS still has a foodtimetable but in the last month ive managed to get him to eat home made bolognaise sauce with lots and lots of pureed hidden veg in it!!!! but that took us nearly 6 months of eating it,i used to put some in a bowl near to him when he was eating his own food but now he eats it!!!!

commutingmum · 24/01/2007 10:33

yes I;ve heard about putting food in a bowl next to DS - will give that a try! thanx. Nice to chat to someone whilst trapped at home with ill children x 2

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